PROMISE Stories

Learning My Status Made A Difference

Learning My Status Made A Difference

It all began with me getting trapped in the Dope Hole at Overtown, and it was difficult for me to leave because everything comes through there like male callers and drug dealers. It’s set up like a town, and my drug addiction had me believing I had everything I needed...

Don’t Hold Anything Back

Don’t Hold Anything Back

I found out I was HIV positive when I went to a clinic in the area in early 2000. My best friend and I decided to go get tested. I found out then that I was positive. I didn't feel any different after I got tested and I still didn't feel any different after they gave...

An Attitude of Gratitude

An Attitude of Gratitude

No one could have ever prepared me for the death of my dad. I couldn’t handle losing someone so close and just when I was starting to cope, my grandma died soon after. I wanted to withdraw from the world, from everyone and everything. I was consumed by my depression...

We Both Got Tested

We Both Got Tested

It had been a year since I'd been tested for STDs. Honestly, I just didn’t think I needed to get tested more often than that. In that year I had two sexual partners, and we didn’t use protection. Then, I met a girl, and we became friends. Things started to heat up...

Hope Will Guide Me

Hope Will Guide Me

My name is Miguel. I am a 52-year-old Latino Male. I was diagnosed with HIV in 2002 back in the Midwest. I thought I was in a monogamous relationship with my partner until I found out he was cheating on me. We hadn’t been using condoms, so I knew I needed to get...

Do It For Yourself

Do It For Yourself

I honestly cannot remember ever being tested prior to attending Broward College. I used to be a student there and Broward House came to campus to do free HIV and STI testing. I didn't know much about testing, except basic sexual education class information from high...

Protect Yourself At All Costs

Protect Yourself At All Costs

The words, “You’re HIV positive,” changed me instantly because I had no idea what I was about to go through. My name is Katara, and I’m a beautiful, 33-year-old trans woman from Fort Lauderdale. When I was diagnosed with HIV, I broke down really bad. For me, not...

Take It Or Leave It

Take It Or Leave It

Take a deep breath and pray. I found out I was HIV+ in jail and I was distraught. I knew what HIV was, but I was in shock. Then I got mad. Then I started crying. I felt like falling to the floor. Like time had frozen. I knew I had to talk to my parents after finding...

A Life Beyond Our Wildest Dream

A Life Beyond Our Wildest Dream

My biggest fear in life is that I wouldn't be loved. So, I put all my energy into acting to assume the role my perfect Jewish family wanted me to live. My name is Richard, but I honestly didn't know who Richard was. When I was 6 years old, I wondered if I was the only...